salam.. now a dayz it is very difficult to distinguish between our own and strangers...sometimes strangers support u more than ur own loved ones and that is why great family distances have started to arise..we meet our cousins only on certain occassions and we r taught the do's and don't's...in the present scenerio only parents and ur own brother and sisters support u...no other blood relation is rust worthy.a short but a true messege... allahafiz